Attachment Type Assessment

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I find it difficult to depend on others^*

It is very important to me to feel independent from others^*

I find it easy to get emotionally close to others^*

I worry that I will be hurt if I allow myself to become too close to others^*

I am comfortable without close emotional relationships^*

I want to be completely emotionally intimate with others^*

I worry about being alone^*

I am comfortable depending on others^*

I find it difficult to trust others completely^*

I am comfortable having others depend on me^*

I worry that others do not value me as much as I value them^*

I worry that others do not value me as much as I value them^*

It is very important to me to feel self-sufficient^*

I prefer not to have others depend on me^*

I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others^*

I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like^*

I prefer not to depend on others^*

I worry about having others not accept me^*

I tend to let problems build up before dealing with them^*

I would like to spend more time with others, but they do not have enough time for me^*

It takes along time for me to become close to someone new^*

I am affectionate in my relationships with others^*

I am too busy to form close relationships with others^*

I tend to be emotionally expressive in my relationships with others^*

I am honest and open in my relationships with others^*

I am shy in social situations^*

When I disagree with others, I find that they are often defensive^*

I do not disclose personal information to others that I am close to^*

It is difficult to accept advice from others because their views are so different from mine^*

I like to deal with conflict immediately, regardless of how long it takes to resolve the conflict^*

I am usually a good judge of how others are feeling^*

I cry easily^*

I handle conflicts differently depending on the issues and the individual involved^*

I do not express my feelings openly for fear that others might disagree with me^*

I believe that it is a waste of time to argue/disagree with others^*

I am comfortable crying in front of others^*

Many of the problems in my relationships with others are primarily my fault^*

When I am upset, I go to others for comfort or support^*

I do not go to others when I am upset because I like to deal with problems on my own^*

Although I want to be accepted, sometimes I feel like I do not fit in^*

I wish that I could be more open in my relationships, but I do not know how to change^*

Fearful

Dismissing

Secure

Preoccupied